alright people, why do you not like homosexuality, why is it so wrong?
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Get over it.19% Voted for by Kayden S, Weydon, aria94, bob2314, whatever1189. (11 total)
Oh please, to sofita over there... the gay ratio is 1 in 10 humans. That means if the men are gay, the women are too. I know this because my sister, who happens to like other women, is in charge of a youth group to help girls afraid to come out to their parents. She also says she thinks its actually 1 in 6, just can't prove it. I have grown up around gay people, my brother's two best friends are... gay people are just like everyone else; why doesn't the world leave them the fuck alone. As if there wasn't enough hate already. I wonder what the ratio of blond to brown hair is. Maybe we should start there next.
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My two cents14% Voted for by WintersRemorse, Chanell, Fallen Rose, live and let live, rock on. (8 total)
I personally just think a large portion of people who dislike it, dislike it because it's not "traditional." Whether their concept of "traditional" is based on religion, morals, etc. is really up to them, but it's all the same. "Traditional" means man and woman. And for some people hopping out of their little "traditional" comfort zones is just impossible. I've never heard anyone say "I hate gays because it messes up the man to woman ratio" type of deal. It's mainly because people think it's wrong, or repulsive, because it's not what they grew up with. It's sad, but true.
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Natural existance10% Voted for by Ezekiel Goldstein, bob2314, Kei-Aira, akid100, frenchfriesforpoems. (6 total)
If we pay attention we'll see that homosexuality appears in nature as well. It is my personal belief that the natural way of existance is bi-sexuality. Modern man is about as far from nature as is possible. With all of his ideals, and superiority complexes man has tried to separate himself entirely from anything natural. I belive that his hatred of homosexuality is for this reason. He wishes to drive anything base and animalistic away from him.
Personally I think sex in any form can be wonderful.Who you do it with and why are all personal choice. No one has the right to tell anyone else that they are wrong. Esoecially if the only basis of their accusation is a book.
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I'm fine with it8% Voted for by petethemeat, The Blind Bandit, aria94, live and let live, Sankofalokumbe.
Used to not like it but my stance has softened - they are no threat to me or my way of life and I am friends with several homosexuals.
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I don't see the problem8% Voted for by Wolf of Roses, Weydon, Kei-Aira, akid100, 600 Miles Away.
If someone doesn't like it then they shouldn't complain about it. Just because it exists doesn't mean that the lifestyle is being forced upon them. If someone is in love with another person of the same gender then that's their bussiness. And people who claim it's wrong due to religion have a weak argument considering that some religions are fine with it.
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Here's why5% Voted for by sofita, Cornilius, SoS.
I'll tell you why I don't like it. I don't like it because there is a serious shortage of marriageable men in the market as it is. The sex ratio among African American males currently stands at 89 per 100 females. If another 4 or 5 of those 89 men are gay, it is going to be very difficult for AA women to find a mate to set up a traditional family. When there is a shortage of men, they dictate the terms of their relationships with women. They can get sex without marriage, marriage without childrearing, and whatever else they want. Because of this, we are seeing outrageous levels of confirmed bachelorhood where men figure they can put off marriage until they're 45 and still find a good mate. All this makes it very hard for women to secure a husband in time to have children. Our bodies don't function at their peak forever, you know.
All this is not to say that I think a homosexual man who has no interest in women should marry, simply that I think we need to recognize homosexuality for what it is: a social problem to be minimized rather than an "alternative lifestyle" to be celebrated and glorified.
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Personally...5% Voted for by crosscountry07, TeChNoWC, Sankofalokumbe.
I really dont care for that lifestyle at all. Main reason being because of what the Bible says. But that doesnt mean that I hate them. One of my very best friends had a girlfriend this year (they did break up recently) but that did not change how much I cared for my friend. I still consider her one of the best friends ever, i just didnt agree with that choice she made. If you wanna do that, go ahead and do that. Nothing is stoppin you.
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fear3% Voted for by Icedflamez112, BloodRedTears66613.
they find it repulsive because they fear it... it is "abnormal" and everyone is afraid of something they don't understand... just as people fear wiccans because they think they worship satan (who we dont believe in) its all in ignorance.
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Not a wise choice3% Voted for by wisdomsearch, TeChNoWC.
Homosexuality is an escapist choice. Men make it to avoid women. It is understandable that some men would choose to avoid women, especially if they have been exposed to excessively domineering and demanding types of females. But at the root of it is a desire to escape true relationships with another man in the same boat.
One of the lies in homosexuality is that sex is a human necessity and that if you have failed in heterosexual relationships you must seek it in a homosexual one. But sexual intimacy is not a necessity, in spite of all the pressure in our society that it is something no one can live without. Plenty of men and women have lived worthwhile and fulfilling lives without sex. There is another choice besides the confusion of homosexuality: stay away from sex altogether until you find a man or woman you truly love.
The uneasiness many people feel about homosexuality does not come from prejudice and training. Many people cannot explain their aversion to it. But I think it comes from a deep seated knowledge that homosexual choice is not courageous. It is choosing a deliberately confusing and escapist path and avoiding a far more satisfying one. People realize this deep down, which is why it has always been taboo until quite recently. The sign that it is gaining acceptance is a sign not of enlightenment, but a sign that Man is becoming more and more a stranger to his own common sense.
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I don't3% Voted for by lifebabe , akid100.
Personally, I don't. I think most people do either because of religion (I'm not religious) or because fear of the unknown/different. What people do in thier beds is their buisness and as for public homosexuality (holding hands and kissing) it dosn't bother me at all.
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My godVoted for by Kissing The Killer.
To sofita over there, you don't have to marry an AA man, unless your racist or something, there's a lot of choice out there, and a portion of those hundred AA women are lesbians, so that shortens the ratio a bit, so just get over yourself.
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June 17, 2006
Live and Let Live
I am more than happy to leave LGBT Americans "the fuck alone" as you say. I am a live and let live kind of citizen. Now how about your sister and other homosexual recruiters leave other peoples' children the fuck alone! Now that you've set me straight on lesbianism being just as common as male homosexuality, why don't you set the American Medical Association straight on the matter, too. They are under the impression that male homosexuality is more than three times as common as lesbianism. As to your assertion that gay people are "just like everyone else," I'm afraid the studies suggest otherwise. They have more sexual partners, STDs, and psychological problems, on average, than the rest of us. Their relationships don't last as long, either. Of course, the LGBT community tends to blame this on straight societal oppression, but the facts aren't bearing this out. Dutch gays and lesbians remain disproportionately neurotic despite the fact that homosexuality hasn't been disfavored there for going on 15 years. There are all kinds of very good LGBT American citizens, and they are free to live as they wish, but if homonazi radicals try to recruit and indoctrinate children in the public schools and through these "youth outreach" gay recruitment centers, I will resist them with every fiber in my being.January 5, 2007
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yeah..
its a shame that many are hard to accept the fact of homosexuality, and so they make fun of it because it is "different" then them. Well honestly, those people are ignorant, illogical, and stupid and shouldnt even open their mouth. but hey, reality is corrupt in many ways, what can i say? I have an almost finished entire philosophy on what life is really about, and what is wrong with reality and society. I support homosexuality, we are all animals and what ever posesses our sexual attraction is perfectly normal. Its all good, and some religion somewhat degrades homosexuality as a sin, that "god" didnt create humans to be like that. well, thats a whole different issue. im athiest, so you see where im going with that. well yeah, nothing much to do about it, its hard...i hope my philosophy will be printed one day and understood by many. because i believe it can have a major effect on society for the most part but in that subject people are not accepting to other facts of reality..its all just ignorance to them but if you ask me they are the corrupt and ignorant ones.Alexander Hine
March 13
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You know psychiatrists have a higher suicide rate than the rest of society, so do philosophers - does that mean we should devalue them? what about gay philosophers?
I simply feel that your arguments are driven more by a homophobic concern to keep gays away from you and your family, than by any genuine concern for human rights.
And what's with all this recruiting business? Support groups are not recruiting centres; I had a Christian counsellor once, but I never accused him of trying to recruit me - people don't turn gay (or Christian) just because someone tells them to, or gives off some kind of gay 'vibe'
Come on
A. H.
P. S. I know this isn't my best argument but, really, gay bashing on this site is just getting to me.
Kazrith
June 17, 2006
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June 18, 2006
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GLBT mental health
Dear Kazrith, You have not responded to my point about Dutch GLBT mental health. Noone is tellng them they "evil, discusting(sic), wrong, scum, etc, yet they are still disproportionately neurotic.June 18, 2006
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homosexual recruitment
Dear Kazrith, You are right that it is not like the army. However, the idea that children are not subject to homosexual recruitment depends on the idea that people are "born gay" and that sexual orientation is fixed and unchangeable from birth. Yet there is no evidence for the idea that people are born gay, even less that sexual orientation is uninfluenced by the cultural environment of the developing child. A very interesting study on adolescent sexuality found that 88.2% of teenagers described themselves as "predominantly heterosexual" while 1.1% described themselves as either bisexual or predominantly homosexual. The rest were "unsure." Remafedi, G., M. Resnick, R. Blum, and L. Harris. 1992. “Demography of Sexual Orientation in Adolescents.” Pediatrics vol. 89, pp. 714-721. The vast majority of the 88.2% of teens who identify as "predominantly heterosexual" are not subject to homosexual recruitment. However, many of them could indeed be influenced to experiment with homosexuality given GLB chic in our culture. We cannot tell from this study how many of these teens would call themselves "predominantly homosexual," but it seems to be a very small number, as the total percentage for bisexually and homosexually identified youths combined is only 1.1%. At any rate, the very few youths who identify "predominantly homosexual" will probably, though not necessarily, be gay no matter what. That leaves us with a very substantial minority of youths who really are vulnerable to gay recruitment. If so many children are "unsure" it stands to reason that sexual initiation, indoctrination, therapy, religion, and other cultural factors could be decisive factors in these childrens lives. It is the parents' right to manage their childrens' sexual uncertainty free from interference by these "education" and "outreach" programs that seem calculated to improve the odds that they will embrace homosexuality and identify as gay or lesbian. Many of these LGBT activists may have nothing but the best intentions. They may really believe that sexuality is fixed from birth and be ignorant of the possibility that they are in fact manufacturing homosexuals. But their ignorance does not excuse their interference and manipulation. Children are indeed being recruited into homosexuality, intentionally or not, by radical LGBT activists who do not respect parents' rights.Kazrith
June 18, 2006
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petethemeat
June 22, 2006
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bob2314
July 12, 2006
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to sofita
we "sleep around" because we are denied marrige in most states.a couple questions if you don't mind. 1. how does one become predominantly heterosexual? you see i'm just wondering if i qualify. i was mnarried for 17 years had a child now i've been dating the same man for 4 years. that would make me predominantly heterosexual would it not? 2.i don't remember any gay recruters but if there are is there a sign on bonus i need the money? 3. is it not very sad when someone has to resort to useing a 20 year old study that the authers don't even beleve in any more?July 27, 2006
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I Agree!
Everything you said made so much sense..I am currently in a relationship with my girlfriend and i am a girl to..I think love should be love and thats all there is to it..We have to hide our relationship everyday and act like were just friends because it is not acceptable in society..ppl should really just grow up and learn to mind there own business..ppl are always condeming what they dont know..cant understand or didnt grow up with...its stupid..i mean are they gonna start condeming computers and technology too..it seems like everyone is always condeming something.....maybe someday we can all live in a world where everyone is acceptable of everyone but thats never gonna happen anyways...TeChNoWC
August 1, 2006
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September 12, 2006
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How intresting
It is very Harmful & intersting or magiable every budy ully enjoing the after sex periodMarch 27, 2007
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TeChNoWC
Accepting homosexuals is not the same as accepting "murderers, rapists, paedophiles and frauders also." Homosexuals aren't evil people by the same definition of the aforementioned. Sure, homosexual people can do evil things...we can rape, kill, fraud, and abuse children, but most of us are contributing members of society! We are your teachers, your preachers, your janitors, your doctors, your bakers, your builders, your politicans, your writers, your musicians, your artists, your 7-Eleven cashiers!!! We aren't criminals that deserve to be locked up in jail, unless we've done something to deserve so!!! I am you and you are me, we are the same, except that I am gay and you are straight!! For the love of God wasn't the main tenet of Jesus' ministry that we all have a place at the table? That the Law is nothing but love the Lord and your neighbor?The amount of Christian intolerance in the world almost makes me ashamed of my crucifix!
April 10, 2007
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