Out of every girl, and every boy I ever met, their first time having sex was either awful, horrible, and just really bad. So, what I want to know, Is it that way with everyone?
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it only hurts if...Voted for by Marissa G.
It only hurts if you're not turned on enough. If you're body is really excited and truley ready, then there will be enough lubrication to make it not hurt. As for the REST of the experience, that's up to the performance of the other person. You can't be expected to be a superstar your first try after all....Practice makes perfect!!!
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InconclusiveAll of the above show personal experiences but generalize as to what everyone else's first time would supposedly have been like. However it will simply vary from person to person due to the surrounding factors. My first time (16) hurt a bit and did not feel great but was with someone i cared a lot for and trusted. Being comfortable with the person is obviously a massive factor as if you are not sure you are doing the right thing or are uncomfortable with the person you will be tense and are unlikely to enjoy yourself. However this is not to say that you must be in love with the person to find your first time liberating and exciting. Basically just go with the flow, although you may not have the best time of your life on the first go the simple saying "practice makes perfect" also strongly applies when on the topic of sex.Voted for by Lucy loo 06.
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Well...Think about when you were in HS. So much of it was shitty, right? Well, that's because you are young, yet old. You have decisions to make, but aren't sure how to make them. Everything is flying at you from every direction. And we're human. We make mistakes. Often-caught up in this new hormonal world, we have sex, and later regret it. But that isn't always true. You can be sound with your decision, and not consider it a mistake. Also, like 30% of women are abused in a relationship before they graduate high school- this may also be why so many "first times" are so bad.Voted for by scarlet screams.
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Well................Personally, my first time was great! People sometimes (more often than less in my opinion) make sex out to be a larger deal than it really is. To me sex is just sex. It's a physical act that you should enjoy. Now I don't mean go out and start screwing random people. That just makes a person well for a lack of better words...........a whore. Anyway, what I'm trying to get at is; if you make sex out to be something that is super important you're going get stressed out about it. Especially if it is your first time. Just be yourself and let go and enjoy it. Sex should be a stress free environment. Don't bring your other problems into the bedroom. It just causes problems. But back to the question about every first time being a bad experience or not. For me the answer is no.Voted for by Thatcantberight-101.
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mine was great....we both were very... "pleased" (if you get what i'm saying)... and it was very special and nice... i'm not with her anymore (in fact i hope never to speak to her again after what she did) but i dont regret it at all... it was the best first time i think i could have had... it was absolutely "right"....Voted for by Crazyhead.
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RealityThis is a guys view, but from the health side of it a lot of girls are "popped" by exercise or whatever before their first time and dont even realize it (its a physical fact) as for guys I think a lot of us have played with ourselves before any girl and just wont admit it.Voted for by SenseiRidgway.
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NoeL-
July 23, 2009
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Anyway, my first time was "bad", but you know what they say: Sex is like pizza. Even if it's bad it's still pretty good.
(note: I say "bad" because I only lasted for about 10 seconds XD Those 10 seconds were awesome though!)
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