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cutting right or wrong?

It's not about wrong, ppl who cut don't want too. They just can't cope,and feel really depressed. People who are not depressed don't understand how hard it is. If you do cut you don't do it all the time, it might not be a big thing but some thing has to happen to make your depression worse and you on edge. Well that's me. Yeah i self harm, i'm not proud and i wish i was happy and didn't, like other self harmers, it's just so hard some times. Well all the time. I don't know others, but you got to be really unhappy to even want to cut your self. Your not be thinking properly. Cutting isn't for attention, but it can be a cry for help, to say that the person feels so in despair and don't know what to do. Others feel suicidal and really want to cause them self pain. Lot of people who are really depressed don't get the right help. Not enough people understand basically cause never felt bad like that, and so say stuff they don't have a right too. To feel really bad, pointless, worthless, like your life is not worth living, can't cope with any thing, and got all this sad and angry emotion that you can't get rid of, to feel like crying all the time, to just be unhappy.And so people who self harm, take their pain out on them self. Most do feel self hatred and blame them self for stuff as well.


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  • they arent crazy

    i dont think cutting is wrong and i dont think that someone is crazy if they do, some people juss have differnt ways of coping w/stuff and that is one way, they arent trying to hurt themselves they are juss trying to release their emotional pain and it works.

    21%  Voted for by candyecane2002, samvasu, lil black cat, bloomingflower, Your faded assassin. (11 total)
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  • Mentally unstable, yes, Wrong, no.

    Cutting just like a placebo. It does nothing to help, just makes you feel better. It’s better than letting it get so bad that you throw yourself of a building or something. It is a sign of having mental difficulties, but I personally see nothing wrong with it.

    15%  Voted for by candyecane2002, Scrap, bloodislikewine, lil black cat, Your faded assassin. (8 total)
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  • right or wrong does not come in to it

    you cannot catagorize the infinately complexity of the limits to human endurance and coping methods with just “right or wrong”

    13%  Voted for by Your faded assassin, the affluent poor, azka, Kyleen, tibit. (7 total)
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  • not wrong

    I agree that people who cut may be mentally unstable., but cutting is not wrong. It is just a different way of dealing with frustration, stress, and difficulties. I have cut myself before, and even though it did nothing to help in the situations I was in, it made me feel better. It’s a very relieving feeling, and i see nothing wrong with it.

    9%  Voted for by awakeanddreaming, Your faded assassin, the affluent poor, me obviously, kissing death.
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  • so...

    How can you say cutting is wrong if you dont even know the situation the 'cutter' is in?We tend to judge people before we get to hear their sides of the storys.We all are diffrent while some people get rid of their anxietys by doing drugs or drinking,cutters simply bruise themselves.Now my question to you why do you say getting rid of your emotions through cutting is wrong,when theres people doing so much worse things?

    5%  Voted for by dianagirl18, micarodi, -Tears Of Pain-.
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  • wrong

    (1st of all, it's only my opinion so don't get all defensive on me) But yes, it is wrong. Slicing into your body with a knife or with anything for that matter is a sign of a seriously mentally unstable person. And they do need to seek immediate help because it's not just a way to "cope". It's life threatening. Because we as humans never stop with the small stuff. (for the ppl who will say that small cuts are not important) We always test the waters first but sooner or later we dive in headfirst. My mom's a social worker and she's dealt with many many people who just cut for the attention. And that's not unimportant. It's a serious personality disorder. If you're cutting now, please stop or at least tell someone who cares what you're doing. You won't regret it. And if you believe no one cares, well then I do. and one person is enough.

    3%  Voted for by looking4realtruth, dark-spell.
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  • yes you can

    it is wrong and easily meanded and forgotten, this is a reaction to something negative and feeds of the negative, to generate more power to itself or to themselves. self-punishment brought on by something deeper. Still it is a sin, because sin literally means causing harm, pain or hurt to all three parts. Mind, body and spirit.

    3%  Voted for by frndofyaweh, Dwn.
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  • Individual Interpretation

    I really don’t think that this is always a sign of mental instability. It could be that the individual is mentally unstable and just can’t come to terms with it. However, this, I feel, is not always the case.

    It all boils down to the person in question. In many cases the cutting is related to mental instability. However, I feel that the cutting is an answer to mental instability rather than a cause for it.

    In other cases it may be more of a morbid curiosity, and would have nothing at all to do with mental instability – people get worried over nothing!

    3%  Voted for by samvasu, Your faded assassin.
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  • its ok with me

    ive cut i will admit, ive quit because of my boyfriend basically if someone is doing it for geniune reasons then its their choice they should get help if they can’t control it anymore, so yeah its anybody’s choice im not gonna judge them for it…

    Voted for by classical beauty.
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  • Neither.

    It isn’t right, wrong, and I don’t think cutters are metally instable. Just a person that has found the thing they are dependant on. Everyone is dependant on something may it be hope, dreams, friends, family, or cutting. But back to the point, cutters are just people whom have found thier way of coping, of getting through everything. I don’t know, maybe I maybe just weird.

    Voted for by RiseFromThyAshes.
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  • None

    depending on the person there are certain situations where cutting could be classed as right or wrong but because a person is generally making the decision to cut themselfs on their own or because of others actions it can’t be classed as ‘right or wrong’.if you get what i mean?

    Voted for by GothycLullaby.
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  • Split

    Well cutting is bad b/c it's inflicting pain on yourself and that's gay, but of course then again maybe you're parents say that if you get into a fight you'll get into a lot of trouble, somethimes cutting is the answer, I'm diffenatly not promoting it but I really can't make up my mind, I have friends that cut, and I've thought about it b4 but never have. Sometimes it's something in your life that you can control, i dunno, I'm torn on this subject.

    Voted for by tearsarenotenough4u.
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  • wrong

    i was a cutter for almost 2 and a half years and i am getting help right now for it i think it is wrong now but i did not when i first started and i would always get mad when people tryed to help but now i am happy that they never gave up b/c i look at all my scares and all they are is a reminder that i was sad and i hurt myself over it and it brings back bad memorys it feels good in a weird way but i like it and sometimes you cann't help it but you should never give up and i am glad no one gave up on me b/c when i hurt my self really bad i had help but i think its wrong to do it to bad if you do it for the love of blood then go for it

    Voted for by DoNtBeLoNg15.
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  • Depends

    I used to cut, and I know that I didn't think it was right. I don't think it's the right way of solving a problem. i have the same views on self-harming as i do on drugs: if someone's doing it because they're unhappy and it's their way of coping, their actions are symptoms,not the problem itself (though cutting, drugs etc. tend to cause more problems). I'm not sure if what I'm saying makes much sense. I just think that if the person is unhappy, they should look at why, and try to change their life. It's hard to stop, but it's also unhealthy physically, mentally and emotionally. So, right or wrong? Wrong, but not the real problem.

    Voted for by bookaddict -syv-.
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  • Doesnt matter

    in the heat of the moment it doesnt really matter if its right or wrong because either way right or wrong youre still going to do it if youre determined and in a depressive state

    Voted for by LightWithinDarkness.
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  • Not very logical, but not morally wrong

    Cutting does not seem to be a very logical thing to do. The negative effects generally outweigh the positive effects. For some people, cutting may seem like the only way of coping, but eventually the decision to cut will have negative effects of their lives. I don't think that cutting is morally wrong because morals can be defined differently by anyone. What one person considers wrong may not be what another considers wrong. I think that people should be able to make choices without being told that they are morally wrong, as long as they are prepared to face the consequences. If a person considers cutters to be mentally unstable, that is his or her own opinion, and mental instability is really nothing more than this opinion. What some people consider insane is only eccentric behavior to others, and is perfectly acceptable. So cutting to me is not the best choice to make, but I cannot say that it is morally wrong or that those who do it are mentally unstable.

    Voted for by 5th position Gb.
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  • undecided

    i believe that it has to do with where it is and how deep. i have cut myself on my thumb and not deep enough and on my knee, wher it bleeds. the one on my thumb, no big deal, the one on my knee, that is wrong to enough the sight of your own blood. it is in your body for a reason. as a young person, i want to say that cutting isn't bad, but truthfully, even though i do it occasionally, i do think it is wrong. i think that there should be a better way to handle stress and pain, but there just isn't. So i'm half into it and half not. like some of my friends, i dont want them to be cutting themselves, some i dont care that they do, and sometimes i want to cut myself and sometimes i dont want myself to. cutting seems like a topic of preference, of age. when you get older, do you stop? then is it still wrong?

    Voted for by VanitaVarsha.
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  • Not morally wrong, but not right

    Good points have been given so far. There’s really nothing morally wrong and it is inf act therapeutic to many people. But doing such a thing can be dangerous if you’re not careful, you’ll be leaving scars on your body (which if you LIKE having, you may just be cutting for fashion rather than coping), and it really isn’t neccessary.

    If you’re reasons are merely to cope and therefore see no reason to stop, could you at least consider trying alternatives? If you find a different method of coping—safer ones even—that work just as good, than why not give it a shot? Either way, you should consider checking out this site to help understand yourself a little better (avoid the introductions into why someone cuts if you are feeling stressed as it may lead to cutting at the moment. If stressed, check out the therapy and self-help sections first, please): http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html

    Voted for by Scrap.
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  • Yes it's mentally unstable

    Cutting yourself is a clear sign you’re having some internal difficulties. When you figure out your conflict you’ll stop cutting yourself. This however is not an issue of right or wrong it’s just a sign like most things.

    Voted for by Happy 420.
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  • Yes and no

    Yes and no. If you have OCD (Obsessive compulsion disorder) than most likely you will cut/burn or take your pain/suffering out on yourself. If you cut to esape pain (you dont have any mental issue) then you do so by your own hand, for you reap what you sew. However, some people are boarn with a mental issue, and must take medication to control it(ADD or whatnot)

    But on the question, is cutting wrong. No. Even though it may seem like you really need to help this person he/she needs to seek out someone they trust and can talk through their problems. Instead of inflicting it on themselves. Many cutters turn out to be poets, artists, singers, composers or whatnot. Self mutilation has been dated as far back at 1400. SO this is nothing new... It's a part of human issues..

    Animals do it as well. Sometimes you'll see a cat biteing at him/herself vigourously.. it too is mutilating its self...

    Voted for by Synith.
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