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It's no different...19% Voted for by BlindAndViolent, cosmosis, bob2314, Kazrith.
Personally, I know a lot of homosexuals, and I've seen the way they treat each other, the way the think of each other... as a straight male, I truly can't see the difference between "them" and "us." The passion, the caring, the lust, the conversations, the phone calls, the letters, the things we call love--they have it. It's exactly the same, the object is different, but the subject isn't. Who or what you love is irrelevant, as long as it is love, right? I support gay marriage, and I'll call any gay man or woman my equal, and I'd gladly talk with them of love, because the emotion, and thought process is exactly the same as it is for you, or me. That's what I think.
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ecologically14% Voted for by sugarstar, open-minded, likewhatitis100.
civilizations have always been and always will be based around the function of the family. heterosexuals are physically able to produce offspring, no offense to you guys who claim homosexuality as your orientation. what influence directly flows from the relationship of the husband and the wife is a perfect balance for the maturation of a child. i must point out that homosexuality is a very clear characteristic of any falling civilization. when a person chooses homosexuality they sacrifice their so-called "civil rights" for the good of the society. what people do behind closed doors will always be their business, but it isn't a civil right that should be granted to homosexuals. simply because of the effect it has on the environment.
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We have a choice9% Voted for by Energizer Bunny, frndofyaweh.
Humans always have a choice; be it physical or spiritual or mind. If you love another with only your soul or mind; you may feel trapped in a relationship. Why? because you have not defined what Love actually is. It is spiritual, not physical. we can love another man and be a man also, but may not wish to physically lust after his body. We can be a woman who loves a husband spiritually, but at the same time; not lust for that husband. It is not necessary to adore another in an attempt to peform a physical act, with them. Homosexuality is firmly based in, the physical aspects of love or lust.
Show us a homosexual; who proclaims this mindset and does not feel perplexed by their lack of physical interaction with same sex, a person who can be a homosexual and not need the physical aspect, or be tortured by the lack there of.
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Difference Shouldn't Condemn People9% Voted for by Untouchable Blue, cosmosis.
I don't think sexual orientation should matter at all. People are people, period. And people are attracted to other people, period. Treating people differently because of sexual orientation is like treating them differently because of skin color. Homosexual, heterosexual, or bi, it doesn't change the fact that they're *people*. It's sad that people have to go through such a long process to accept people who are different from the majority. Skin color, religion, and now sexuality. People said the same things they're saying now. It's just a matter of who you like, not of what gender people are. Nobody should ever have to feel wrong or uncomfortable because of their nature. Anybody who condemns people for that should realize they're making a person suffer.
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You'd never know9% Voted for by Shivers, cosmosis.
Look, Ive lived most of my life cofused to hell everyday about what I am, and to be honest even a discussion about it to me is pointless. At the end of the day, its clear that we can not choose who we love be it gay, straight, or bisexual. We all experience bad experience, all have fallen for the complete f**k head partner at some time in our life and despite our better judgement been unable to just turn away. To the same degree, we cant chose whether we like a man or woman. If you just imagine, and be truthful with your heart when you do, the person youve loved most in your life...well imagine if they just woke up the complete opposite sex one morning, no matter what you fight or what you conclude no one has the capacity to turn of love or there feelings like a light switch.
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why only adults?Voted for by puddle of worms.
Why do so many people keep saying as long as they are adults?
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It Shouldnt MatterVoted for by black rose spirit.
Personaly I see nothing wrong with homosexuality and I don't like people being distrespectful to LGBTQ people. However, I hate it just as much when people say "Gays are hot" as when they say "Gay's are stupid". I don't think we should judge people on their sexual orientation no matter what. A person is a person no matter race, beliefs, religion, gender, sexual preferance, or anything. I don't like to make a huge deal about gay rights or anything, because to me, if you are gay/lesbian/bi/trans/questioning/straight/whatever it doesnt matter.. However, since this society seems to make it a point to discriminate against LGBTQ people, I try to counteract that as much as I can. I do have my own views such as I don't believe it's a choice to be LGBTQ although some people do chose to do so, and I really coulnt care less about your sexual habits, but I care mainly about getting people to treat everyone equaly, not getting them to share my views. Instead of telling people to "like gays" I tell them to accept everyone for who we are - PEOPLE.
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HomosexualityVoted for by Xadrian.
Here's a quote, it's all I need to say.
"The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision." ~Lynn Lavner
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scientificallyVoted for by frndofyaweh.
Psychological thought:
It is a sexual fetish, that develops early on in life, around ages 6 months to 5 years old.
My theory:
The chemical changes, that are proven to happen, in the brains of homosexuals, are actually controlled by the mental awareness of the fetish, as being an inescapable part of themselves. Chemical balance or unbalance, is directly linked to our thoughts of who we are.
Just a theory guys, so please don't stone me just yet.
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Genetics vs. ChoiceVoted for by NorCalDude.
I am reposting this here - since I feel it is relevant.
The thing that it boils down to, is that humans are not dogs, or birds, we are capable of a lot higher thought functions, and as such are able to control our actions. I mean come on, even dogs can be trained to pee outside. So I think that trying to cop out and say that you have no control over the orientation is crap. If I have a "genetic" predisposition to alcoholism, recessive or dominant, it means nothing, unless I choose to drink alcohol.
Sure I think guys have been sticking it in since they first got an erection. But face facts, there's nothing "meant to be" about it. It is purely the satisfaction of of a base human desire. Why not be honest and say Im horny, he's horny, and we like to get eachother off. Dont try to blame it on anything other than your choice to do so, and leave marriage, family, health benefits, and the constitution out of it.
I truly do not doubt that there are men out there, who are more attracted to other men...more estrogen in their system than someone else, but it is still a choice to bend over and take in the output port. And the same goes for the other side of the fence...female-wise.
Sure I'm part of the closed minded extreme right, or so some would say, but I guess I just dont see the point. I have participated in enough psychological education, training, therapy, coaching and just plain talking with guys to see that there is a pattern in the men who decide to act on these "attractions", and that is simply that they have had a horrible relationship with their fathers, they were not educated to be men, and seek the loving, nurturing relationship that they never received from their father (if they had one to begin with) and think that they will somehow find it in the misinterpreted advances of another seeking the same thing.
Salut
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a garage needs a bus not a garage!Voted for by baseeji.
Homosexuality isnt right, off course you have ure free will to act as you wish and i am not saying i would kick a gay guy but just saying that its not natural and what ever isnt natural isnt right! unnatural things cause harm! If not for themselves then for others!
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a garage needs a bus not a garage!Voted for by baseeji.
Homosexuality isnt right, off course you have ure free will to act as you wish and i am not saying i would kick a gay guy but just saying that its not natural and what ever isnt natural isnt right! unnatural things cause harm! If not for themselves then for others!
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